In these 3 1/2 years of being a mom I have learned many, many things. I have become more patient, I don't plan ahead as much (because really you just never know what a day may bring!!), I never leave the house without toys, sippy cups, snacks, wipees, and "treats," if I want to be on time somewhere I have to plan on leaving at least 15 minutes before necessary so that MAYBE I will walk out the door on time, but most of all I have learned that there are SO many joys and blessings in every single day and all it takes is stopping a moment and paying attention to these precious kiddos.
Some of the blessings and joys of this week are as simple as watching Grafton eat all of her lunch without me having to nag her, laughing at James as he climbs up on the chair and grabs the cord of the blinds so he can pull them up and down, and watching the kids play with their Doctor kit and taking turns pretending to be sick. One day we had a camp out in the playroom during nap time...which of course resulted in no afternoon nap but lots of giggles and stories! Today we went to the ice cream shop and filled up on ice cream and candy at noon, THEN went home for lunch....breaking the rules here and there can't hurt right?! I love watching the kids hug and cuddle, I never get tired of hearing Grafton say "I love you so much James-y boy!" and it makes me laugh as I watch James follow Grafton EVERYWHERE and copy EVERYTHING that she does. My little joys include fun bath times, making silly faces at each other, reading the same book over and over, listening to Grafton make up bug songs, and taking naps with James. As I think about all the little itty bitty fun moments of the day I realize that there is just sooooo much to be thankful for. Even the bad moments aren't really so bad when I think of how blessed I am to be able to experience ALL of the moments with the kids each day. I thank God that He has given me this opportunity to be a mother and that He has opened my eyes to so much more than just diapers, bottles, and lovies.
This is what I found one morning this week when I got out of the shower...the kids were piled into a laundry basket playing games! Funny way to start off the morning!
Our ice cream and candy lunch (sorry for the quality- taken with my phone). Doesn't this face crack you up? He is quite animated!
Nap time cuddles! James LOVES it when Grafton hugs on him.
Dr. Graeber
This is how I found him watching TV one day
All smiles after nap time
I could just squeeze her all day
His first jersey! Needless to say he LOVES it!